Well Well Well…. At last, in the end, by the grace of God my exams are over and so is my 2^nd semester. So here I am back to my home for vacations. It is in this sweet refuge that I get bored and I have to go to the idiot box for helping my perishing mind get back some momentum. And I make sure I restrict myself to Nat Geo and Discovery. But yesterday and today morning I saw an advertisement (not the MTV episode of axe!!)...

The advertisement made me think a bit. I am a teenager in the last stage but still, I am a teenager. I have always wondered about relationships and what they really mean? Then this ad has just crossed the limits. Well I am an insane guy who thinks changing girlfriends or boyfriends (depending on your sex… I mean straight sexuality ;) ) is just a refuge you take to run away from your troubles. You are not satisfied with a person so you want a change. What we don’t normally realize is that the person in front of us is a mirror of ourselves. Do good to beget good. Love to beget love. So when you find instability in the relation you are ready to blame the other person!!

Well the advertisement was about fast-track. The ad showed a boy and girl exchanging their sun-glasses and wrist watches (which they had probably gifted each other) and went different ways going for new birds to chase or greener pastures J !! But I don’t get how can you so easily break a relation. Or is it to be assumed that life has lost its meaning to such an extend and life has became so hollow that real relations have no meaning. Now all relations in the world seem to have been entrapped in rationalism and being strangled. But why is this trend coming forward. Fine you want to be professional? Want to have superficial relationship? Or have you taken such a blow in a relationship that you decided not to indulge in any more. I remember a friend of mine ho said : “that girl played with me, so now I will play with the feelings of another person!!” well I think this is the worst case of tit for tat coz the person who has done no wrong is paying for it and the chain will go on and on.

Well, Teenagers are the most confused creatures on the Earth and it is proved in every house!! But the society here does not allow kids discussing everything with their parents. Even if the parents are ready to give an ear, the kids are not ready to speak!! Well everything is so complex because it is simple. Complexity is just an excuse to show that we don’t want to understand the simple stuff. The simple thing is that spiritually hollow soul will look for refuge in superficial stuff and it leads to such dreadful relationships. So don’t let the poor soul die a silent death. Every time you take a step ask your inside if it hurts you (I am not using right or wrong coz they have no meaning here). If it hurts your conscience you better stop!! If you have reached to such a level that the most shameless act dosen’t make you feel the pain, then God Bless Thou!!